"It doesn’t make sense that you would work so hard, fight so long and go through so much to add a child to your family and then disrupt the adoption–or give the child up, nullifying the adoption. To say that this doesn’t make sense is an understatement. But, it happens. Sometimes, it needs to happen."
"I
don’t expect anyone who has never thought about disruption to understand
anything about it. The good news, is that you are lucky, so extremely lucky and
blessed if you don’t understand anything about disruption. It is ugly, it is
painful, it is heart breaking and gut wrenching. It leaves an empty space that
is unable to be filled and the worst part is that no one understands and nearly
everyone judges. The people who love you most will throw the biggest stones and
it is not fair. It is not fair that when you are grieving the loss of a child,
the outside world is just cruel."
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